Step Into Your True Sexual Self – One Transformation At A Time

Are you living your best sexual life? Are you having the kind of sexy, sensual experiences with others (or with yourself) that light you up and make you say – I fucking love my sex life!?

If your answer is ‘no’, you’re not alone. Far too many people feel stuck in or settle for sex lives that are mediocre, unfulfilling, or non-existent. That was me for years. And when I was in that place, I was convinced that was all I was going to get. 

Until one day I realized a different way was possible, with help. I reached out and got help from an intimacy coach.

If you want this for yourself but you aren’t ready to do a six-month coaching program (or the thought of trying to change all the things right now is overwhelming), then a Tune In & Turn On Intensive is for you.

These Intensives are about giving you tools and support to step into a fuller expression and experience of your true sexual self through a short, immersive experience. You’ll identify* one specific area to work on – rather than trying to change all the things, we focus on one area to shift. 

(* Don’t worry – if you don’t immediately feel drawn to one of the topics listed below but you know the intensive is for you – get yourself on my calendar and in the scheduling form select “Unsure” when prompted to identify a topic. We’ll use part of our initial Get Acquainted call to figure out how best to use your intensive.)

By doing an Intensive not only do you give your experience of your sexuality a huge boost by shifting that one thing, you also learn how changing long-established patterns is actually possible.

And from there, other changes become easier.

Some things you can work on in an intensive:

  • Increasing your desire for sex
  • Exploring or navigating kink
  • Getting better at flirting
  • Mis-matched libido
  • Navigating or exploring non-monogamy
  • Understanding and shifting a significant relationship trigger
  • Finding the fun in dating
  • Upping your self-pleasure game
  • Understanding what really turns you on (and how to get it)

The immersive coaching experience includes a 2-hour session where we dive deep into the topic you’ve selected. You’ll walk away with: 

  • a clearer understanding of what’s happening for you – why you’re struggling in the ways that you are, 
  • a fuck ton less shame about the thing – believe me if you’re feeling stuck around this issue there’s some shame that’s getting in the way, 
  • an embodied and felt sense of how it’s actually possible to shift the thing, and 
  • concrete, simple strategies for you to use immediately to start doing things differently.

These strategies, while simple, are not always easy. That’s where two elements of the Tune In & Turn On Intensive come in to play.

  1. Many of the strategies (tools, practices, exercises, homework…whatever you want to call them) I’ll recommend, we’ll try out first together in the coaching space. HUGE caveat here – we’ll only try them out together if you’re a YES to it – you’re always in control and we go at your pace. Things feel that much easier to try out in the real world when you’ve already had an experience of doing them with me.
  2. Following that coaching session, you’ll have access to me for support – via text, voice memo, and/or email (whichever you prefer, or use all 3!) – for 30 days. I’ll be available almost on the spot to coach you through whatever is coming up for you as you implement your recommended strategies. Or, if you experience some resistance to doing the work outside of the session, you’ll have me in your back pocket to help you bust through that resistance.

THE COST IS $555 – HERE’S WHAT’S INCLUDED

            A 45-minute Get Acquainted Zoom call.

            One area of focus, identified either on your own or during the Get Acquainted call.

            A two-hour Deep Dive coaching session, either via Zoom or in-person.

            30 days of daily* coaching support via text, voice memo, and/or email.

            A 45-minute Closing Zoom call to wrap up our work together.

* What does “daily coaching support” mean?

This means you can reach out to me every day for support, and I commit to getting back to you at least once (often more) that day (or the next if your message comes to me after 8pm PT or on the weekend). And if I haven’t heard from you recently, I’ll be pinging you to check on how things are going to help make sure you’re on track to achieve the results you’re hoping for. This immersive work is most powerful when you take full advantage of this feature.

Know the Tune In & Turn On Intensive is for you? Schedule your Get Acquainted call now!

(If you’re considering it but are uncertain or have questions, send me a message and we’ll schedule a quick chat to see if an intensive is a good fit for you.)

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